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    Mumbai Terror Attack- A lesson we will never learn.

    Everyone knows about what happens and how it happens in mumbai. Media reports are coming in with more than 200 dead,  head are still counting and more than 325 injured.  Thanks to direct telecast - it took times to Indian agencies to understand that LIVE TELECAST is helping terrorits which were in direct link with their bosses on phones. They not only used Settelite phones but also phones of guests. Some important findings done by me in these two and half days of terror...I am a civilian and citizen of India..who saw whole narration on different channels, websites and papers during this attacks. My obeservations...

    1. TERRORITS WERE WELL INFORMED ABOUT THEIR OPERATION:-  Now bites are coming out that they had a reccee of every place they are going to attack and while we read these lines...this means a group of them successfully came and went to India...thus exposing ince again intelligence and security agencies working. They knew every floor, room and passage and moved with ease in hotel. All iterviews with survivors described this clearly that they were well informed about  HOTEL.

    2. NO SECURITY SYSTEM IN MUMBAI / INDIA : In small group of 2, they made havoc in Mumbai, hijacking police vehiles, killing people and besides this...they managed to kill three top IPS officers traveling in SUV. This all shows that anyone with semi-automatic gun in hand could have done this anytime. Same scenerio was in CST - there was no one, no system to fight and nautralize these two terrorits which shows how week and impotant system we are living in.

    3. POORLY MANAGED OPERATION: I am no one to judge why and how things are happening inside and what techniques should have been used, due to little knowledge about these issues BUT this is strange and very dramatic that even professional agencies did not knew enemy strength they are fightng with. Leave alone electronic devices, imaging devices or UMD [ UnManned Devices ] but Indian media was beaming stories about only ONE TERRORIST inside Taj for more than 6 hrs. unless spokesman of internal Security said in press conference that there could be 6 inside on evening of 28th Nov.

    Television media which in pursuit to get TRP's, tried to make this coverage sensational and forgets that they can look foolish too.  Above all...LIVE coverage helped terrorits and even after Govt. stopped live coverage, one channel was showing it LIVE. One channel put a terrorist in Nariman House , live-in conversation.

    4. POLITICS ON BLOOD: Shameless and chracterless developments seen on TV and both parties tried to took advantage of situation, when one operation is still ON. BJP in haste declared that if you want to live without terror - you should vote for us. All this happens when encounter in TAJ was going on. One state minister from Delhi said on TV that something I want to say and something you want to listen..lets compromize. Again, reminding me that a politician will remain politician even when his own young SON got killed or daughter RAPED.

    CONCLUSION: Nothing, like it happens in past, we will forget what happens in Munbai excpet those who lost their family members...we have very week memory unless another blast or hostage drama is played. Then again, sentiments will arose, emotion will ran high and people will sit and talk politics...and India will continue to live like this with more than 8% GDP growth, landings on Moon and IT name in world.

    My prayers for all those who lost their lives in this brutal expression of hate and killings- PEACE FOR ALL.

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    Some colors of Spiti

    Yoga and healthy sex life.

    "Sexually active people tend to live longer and have a lower incidence of heart disease. According research, hormones and brain chemicals released during orgasm help manage acute and chronic pain. Other studies show that sex can fight depression and weight gain, and support the immune system.

    So how does yoga help? By making you stronger, more flexible, and more confident in and out of bed. In short, the more time you spend on the mat, the more steamy your time in the bedroom, "Yoga helps you open your body and tap into your core strength and sexual energy,". Yogis believe sexuality is stored in the hips and pelvis;
    Beyond increasing sexual pleasure, Yoga poses build strength and stamina. Additionally, yoga teaches self-acceptance--and if you love your body, you may feel more comfortable being naked and less inhibited during sex. "Feeling at ease with your body is sexy.

    By practicing yoga with your lover, you can both enjoy the benefits--and grow closer in the process. "Couple's yoga is like foreplay: You're breathing, sweating, and moving together," And when the sheets are untangled, the fruits of your practice can have a long-lasting outcome: "Without a doubt, I think doing yoga with your partner deepens your relationship". "It helps you connect on all levels--physical, mental, and spiritual."

    While some yogis practice abstinence as part of their yoga, many yogic lineages are tantric. Tantric principles acknowledge the body as divine, and integral part of your spirituality, and all bodily functions are acknowledged and respected, not hidden.
    Sex is a natural expression of love, and of energy, and there are many people in Western Society who have a variety of issues around sex. Generally, if people have a low sex drive or low sexual control, self-esteem is affected. People with a healthy, active sex life are shown to have healthier hearts and reproductive organs, lower instances of psychological problems, and there are many physical benefits! Yoga can help increase sexual vitality and control.

    There is nothing wrong with sex - it is healthy, and can be physically satisfying, fun, and transformational if used to attain different levels of consciousness. The moment of orgasm can be a state of altered consciousness, and it lasts to short a time for most people - what if you could maintain that state for longer periods of time? How would this affect your romantic partnerships as well? A healthy, active sex life can make your body healthier, your mind happier and more clear, and your interactions with others more joyous.

    I feel that there is no shame in our bodies - and the first step towards a healthy sex life is to love your own body, and be comfortable with your entire body. Find a partner who you can trust and understands this, and explore each other's bodies - if you are shy about having your partner touch part of your body, for example, the anus, then practice touching there, in a safe and loving setting, using massage and softness to help each other accept the body in its entirety.

    Second step - open mind. Don't judge what you like or dislike - what turns you on or off. Just learn it about yourself. You don't need to act on every fantasy or every erotic thought - just know what has a sexually arousing effect on you, and let go of shame or judgment. You may not need to take a pill to help with this! You can increase sexual energy using yoga!

    Consider letting your partner watch you do your routine sometimes. It'll keep your practice from getting boring and it will peak their interest in doing yoga, (and in doing other things!) This can be especially enticing if it's done with the understanding that it's 'look but don't touch!' But, hey, if it does end up there, yoga teaches us to also 'go with the flow'!

    Don't worry about how your body looks. We all have lumps and bumps where we wish there weren't any, and we're all missing curves and lumps where we wish there were some! Your partner is not going to care! They'll love the chance to enjoy your workouts! They'll love that you're doing more and more to make your love life great!

    If you're doing your yoga and start feeling unhappy about the way you look, simply notice the feeling, take a nice, slow breath in and go back to paying attention to the stretch and to your breathing.

    How to Get the Most out of the Following Routine
    •Notice how your body relaxes as you breathe out, which will allow you to stretch a little farther.
    •Do not stretch so much that you feel burning or pain.

    •If you feel like your body has hit a concrete wall, then you're at your limit. When you get to that point, simply breathe and feel your body relaxing for a couple more breaths, then let the posture go.

    •Relax completely in between repetitions, feeling your muscles letting go of the stretch, feeling them relaxing. The full routine will take about an hour.

    The vast majority of men and women are, through sexual relations, losing the very thing he or she needs most to find real, lasting satisfaction.
    There is a vital life-current activating force or essence in the vital fluids that can be of tremendous benefit to the glands and nervous system if these fluids are conserved and reabsorbed through the process of Tantra and transmutation. Conservation makes it much easier to be content with very little and results in much greater sensitivity to those things that bring joy, inspiration and happiness. What normally would bring little pleasure creates a lot of pleasure, as long as one's precious sexual fluids are maintained and not lost.

    The breathing excersises and meditation practices that I will be writing about require sexual energy to be effective and benefical, and at the same time, is needed for transmutaion. Successful control of the senses requires strict control of the mind gained through long periods of concentration in the third eye and inner sounds through meditation.
    Depending on how one uses this information, one can free oneself more and more from the need of physical sex to find a superior and long lasting fulfillment through conservation and transmutation. Why go for the temporary excitement of sensual pleasure (loss of vital fluids) if it is possible to enjoy long periods of bliss, joy and experiences of profound spiritual inspiration, oneness or wholeness? Perfect, uninterrupted celibacy, if skillfully managed, can also mean a lifetime of uninterrupted joy, bliss, vitality, virility, better health, inner strength, greater memory and wondrous mental powers enchantment inevitably leading to some very high states of conscious realization. In this lifestyle, temporary thrills are sacrificed for constant joy.

    Yoga Meditation Breathing for Better Sexuality:-

    This is a basic meditation that will help your ability to simply sit and notice feelings without doing anything about them. With practice, you will be more able to sustain your sexual energy during love making and will be more able to build your sexual desire during a session. As a result, you will have more rich experiences - and stronger orgasms.

    Where & When to Do This:-

    Any time, anywhere you have a moment.
    Best place is in a quiet spot where you'll be undisturbed for 5 - 20 minutes.
    Best time is in the morning - but any time is good.
    The Meditation Techniques
    •Sitting comfortably or lying down.
    •Be in a position where your body will feel least inclined to move.
    •If you're lying down, have your arms by your sides with a little space between your body and your arms.
    •If you're sitting, your arms can be resting loosely in your lap, elbows slighltly open.
    •Have your face & chin pointing forward, so that your air passages are fully open.
    •Eyes are open and relaxed, not looking at anything in particular.

    Once you are settled into place, all you need to do is pay attention to your breath as it comes and goes.

    As you breathe in, hear the air rushing into your head, feel your body opening up. As you breathe out, follow the breath out into the room. Do this for however long you have. 3 - 5 minutes is a good start. If you become comfortable with 3 - 5 minutes, increase the duration 1 minute at a time.

    During this meditation, it's very common for people to have feelings and thoughts come up.
    You might notice a flood of emotions start to rise up, or your mind might start to race. Many people start to feel slightly irritated with the exercise, or they start to feel 'ant-sy'.
    This is OK and is a sign that the meditation is going normally and is working. It shows that your mind is starting to relax, and as it is relaxing you are starting to let go of thoughts and feelings that you have been keeping 'a lid on'. The remedy for this is to simply notice the thoughts and feelings and let them go by breathing in and out. Draw a slow breath in, noticing the air flow in, noticing how your body opens up - and you'll refocus and be back into the meditation. If you can continue, you will eventually find that these feelings subside and you reach a deeper state of meditation. The benefit to your life is that it makes you very patient and trains you to enjoy the moment.

    With Your Partner:-

    There are some wonderful variations on this meditation if you want to do it with your partner. With any of these, you may sometimes find your breathing ends up being synchronized. If you are aware of your energy bodies, you might also notice that these exercises start synchronizing your energy bodies, so that the rhythms, flow and colours begin to be in harmony with each other. When that happens, it's very beautiful.
    Here are three variations of this meditation that are lovely to do with your partner:
    1. Simply practice together, in the same room, each of you paying attention to your own breathing.
    2. Sitting, facing each other, do the meditation by paying attention to your partner's breathing. You may find it hard to keep your attention on your partner's breath. If your mind wanders, that's OK, just bring your attention back to the exercise.
    3. Both of you lie down, facing the same direction, one partner snuggled up behind the other. Decide ahead of time how long you will do the meditation and if it is or is not allowed to go farther into sexual exploration. Decide ahead of time if you will be paying attention to your own breathing or to your partners', or if you're going to start with yourself and later shift to noticing your partner's breath. Then simply notice the breath as it comes and goes, the movement of your bodies, the sounds, the feel of the breath on your skin.

    Tourism company strands travelers- Snow Lion Company

    Snow Lion Expeditions blames economy for its failure to pay trek leader - Oregon residents Anne Uzzell and Eric Ronemus are furious that a Salt Lake City tour company, Snow Lion Expeditions, left them stranded in Nepal last month, $7,240 poorer.
        The company's owner, Ron Barness, is apologetic but does not know how to rectify the situation. He claims the global credit crisis wiped him out before he could react.
        "I had various sources of capital that vaporized in one week," said Barness, whose company handled logistics for trips to exotic places, such as a recent foray into North Korea. But now it is bound for bankruptcy.
        "We operated inside a growing economy for 17 1/2 years. Once the economy began to retract, we weren't really prepared for it," he said. "I have shareholders who were unable or unwilling to help the organization. I wasn't able to help. I put all the capital I have into the company. I refinanced my house three times. We were caught inside of a perfect storm where the source of the capital dried up and we were unable to finance our organization going forward."
        When the bottom fell out, Barness had several tour groups in Asia, including the "Everest Close Up" group that included Uzzell and Ronemus of Central Point, Ore.
        The duo flew on their own into Kathmandu on Oct. 8, were greeted at the airport by their expedition leader and taken to a hotel, where they met five fellow trekkers.

    How  is this legal?" she questioned. "It is an utter outrage and injustice to us as human beings and a downright embarrassment that this company is doing business as an ambassador of the United States."Only then, said Uzzell, did the local ground operator inform them that Snow Lion had not paid him for their trip. He couldn't do it for nothing, and Snow Lion already owed him money.
        The trekkers had a choice: Go home, or pay the local operator to take them. "After a night of mulling over these two very extreme options, all seven of us paid [the local operator] to provide the same itinerary previously booked and for which we had already paid in full," she said.
        Uzzell is angry, saying Barness let them fly halfway around the world without telling them about his financial woes, then used the economic crisis as a scapegoat.
        "The bottom line is he took a whole lot of money from us and it didn't go to where it was supposed to. I don't know what became of the money," she said. Her one consolation is the couple had bought trip insurance in case of altitude-induced medical problems - and the policy had a provision for cancellations.
        Still, Uzzell worries that Snow Lion's Web site gives no indications the company is out of business and that other travelers could lose money. She is considering filing a complaint with the state Division of Consumer Protection, but had not done so Tuesday. A division spokesman said he was aware of the matter, though had not been notified formally by Snow Lion customers.
        Barness said he is not taking new reservations. "We're essentially out of business. This is a really sad story. We've served 3,000 people in 17 years and had a wonderful track record."
        Those clients include Olivia Agraz and husband Jess, the former Salt Lake City commissioner. They took the Snow Lion-sponsored trip to North Korea in August and earlier used the company for a customized trek through southeast Asia.
        "We always thought they were a great company," she said. "I really feel bad for Ron because he tries so hard to make everybody happy. He's a victim of the times we're going through now."
        That perspective doesn't sit well with Amanda Bronson, 33, of Sacramento, who paid more than $5,000 and "dreamed of hiking in the Himalayas for 10 years," only to be left hanging with Uzzell and the others.

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